
Almost 30 years ago, Leslie and I took a long weekend north of NYC with another couple to an old rustic cabin on Burden Lake, near Sand Lake NY and we fell in love. Not with each other - we were well down that path - but with lake life. The lake was flat and quiet. We canoed, fished, lit a fire, and city induced tautness ebbed away.
Three years ago, now in central North Carolina, we decided to fall in love again. Not with each other - we were still on that path - but with lake life. The last of our four children was in high school, and we set a goal to leave suburban life behind when she was graduated and gone at college.
We found our lake almost by accident. Signs on a well traveled road in a nearby county pointed to a lake house for sale where no lake seemed to be. We thought it must refer to a farmstead with a large pond and passed it by several times. Then, on a whim, we followed the sign down a gravel road and discovered a secret lake. Nearly a thousand acres, almost three miles long, the lake allows motorized boats - restricting speeds to a civilized 25 MPH - but no jet skis or water skiing. It has no public access and is home to only 57 houses, fewer than 20 of which are year round residents.
We had found the lake. But it took two years before we could call it ours.